It has been argued that women are materialistic;
some of them boldly embraced it while some merely shrugged it off as mere
generalization. Some relationships have ended bitterly where the people
involved feel used by one another, and it has been out one looking for what to
benefit from the relationship.
A quick study shines light into this aspect,
consider these comments made by real people during one of our on air telephone
conversations with some of our guests;
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I
met this girl and we started dating sometime in 2010, around 2014 I started
getting remorse that she was getting married to another guy so I confronted her
and she confirmed it, I gave her my blessings and she went on to marry the
gentleman, then the husband had a ghastly motor accident that shocked me on my
spine and he died. But she was pregnant at that time.
We
hooked up again in 2015 but then she already has a son, now she is the one
putting pressure on me to settle down with her, I asked her to give me 2 to 3
years for me to be ready before I can settle down but she is not accepting
that.”
Itoro, Abj
Am guessing that she is the one that came
back to you immediately your husband passed on. She came back to you probably
because as it stands now, you are her plan B. That is why she is in a hurry to
push you into marrying her before you realize it. If her hubby didn’t die she
will have no reason to come back to you. My friend I think that she just needs
a man who will take care of her and her child.
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My
relationship with my girlfriend is heading towards the cliff because I don’t
understand what is going on with my girlfriend who I love so much and really
planning to settle down with. Just 2 months ago I bought a new phone for her
and not too long ago she told me that the phone has gotten lost. Some days back
I sent her some money and she told me that the money got stolen from her on her
way back from the ATM.”
Mic,
Abj
This is really funny because your so
called girlfriend is really dumb with her gimmicks to scam you, anything you
give to her gets lost, that means when you marry her someday, things will also be
getting lost or probably one day you too will get lost. My brother, run for
your dear life…
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Am
really in love with this younger man that I am dating, we have been dating for
a while now but the sad part is that he never takes me out or spends money on
me. The relationship is already getting boring because of that, abeg na only love
me go chop?
Vic,
Abj
It depends on the agreement in which you
both made before you started the relationship. In many relationships where a
younger guy is dating an older lady there are sometimes an agreement or an
understanding between the partners, like that the guy would not be spending
much on the lady. If the relationship is getting boring you might want to talk
to the young man about it, but if you have the power to revive the relationship
from its boredom, why don’t you go ahead and do it. This your phrase “abeg na
only love me go chop?” is that the basis of the relationship? Is that why you
are dating him?
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I
toasted this girl two years ago and she said no, so I moved on and now I have a
girlfriend. But this girl I toasted 2 years ago came back and she is really
pushing, trying to replace my girlfriend, I don’t know what her intentions are
and it gets me worried, what could be her reasons for coming back to me after
so much time?
Sim,
Abj
Am sure she has a reason for coming back but
trust me it is not a good one. It’s either she realizes you have grown
financially over the years and choses to come back or she has been rejected by
the guy whom she thought that she was going to end up with, but either ways
it’s no good reason for you to accept her back. She better stick to her ‘NO’
because you have a girlfriend now.
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