Hi Splendour,
Oricha is a girl I met on social media in 2013 when
she was still a youth corper serving here in Abuja. When I met her in person I liked
her immediately because she had a very sexy body in fact, it was her back side
that got most of my attention because she has it in abundance.
You see back then still struggling trying to make
ends meet. I was working with a bottled water distribution company so I was
entitled to a van, yet when I was done for the day I will pick her up from
where she worked and we will spend what’s left of the day together.
Towards the end of her youth service months, one day
Oricha came to me and told me she was pregnant for me, I was surprised because I
only slept with her once and with a condom, I considered the possibility of
getting her pregnant with a condom, so I spoke with a pharmacist and he
confirmed there is a possibility.
It wasn’t my plan to get her pregnant neither did I thought
of marrying her, am Yoruba while she’s Egbira from Kogi state. I told her to
get rid of the pregnancy but she refused claiming that in their culture any
woman who aborts a baby dies. She has started mounting pressure on me asking me
to come and see her parents and do something about her situation because she
will not give birth to a bastard. As foolish as I was I never bothered to take
her for a CT scan to confirm if she was truly pregnant to begin with talk less of
the child being mine. Later I accepted to marry her, I took her to my parent
and told them that she was already pregnant with my child and I intended
marrying her and I went to see her people to make all the preparations for the
marriage.
Just when the marriage was almost set to take place
in the following day I received the greatest shocker of my life. Oricha came to
tell me that she lied about the pregnancy; I became so disappointed with
myself. She pleaded with me and told me not to tell anyone and that her reason
for doing such thing was that she wanted to get married to me because she loved
me and couldn’t afford to miss me, and promised to love me more. I am sure that
if my parents ever heard about this and the marriage will be over. I was
touched with those words so I accepted and helped her keep her secret.
To help her conceal her secrets, a months after our
wedding I called my parents to tell them that my wife has lost the pregnancy. Then
later her attitude began to change, just when you feel like you have just
helped you woman out hoping that she owes it to you to pay you back with
goodness, but she becomes an evil who you feel that is on a mission to
eliminate your life.
Oricha became the kind of woman who will attack me
in front of our neighbors, she will be shouting holding me on my trouser abusing
me calling me useless man, causing a scene. One day when am going to work in
the morning about to enter the car, she ran outside half naked to block me from
entering the car telling me that the money I gave her to make her hair wasn’t complete
and insisted I must give her the money complete. She does nothing but to sit in
the house, go to salon to make her hair every week. Everyone living in that
street will hear her voice shouting at me everyday.
One weekend she was cooking, she came to tell me
that the gas has finished and I had no cash with me that weekend so I asked her
to use part of the money I gave her for her hair to purchase gas that I will
pay her back when I go to ATM. She started shouting and abusing me again, I just
quietly took the gas cylinder and put it inside the car and drove to ATM to
collect money and fill the gas.
Sometimes it will look like she is been possessed
because despite all the insults and scenes I receive from her, I still send
money to her mother without she or her daughter even asking, her mum will call
her and ask her to thank me and she will be surprised and she will say that
even after all she had done to me and I was still being good to her parents. But
shortly after that she continues with her usual attitude. She hasn’t given me
any child since our marriage and am beginning to wonder if she can bare a
child. I always find it difficult to come home because of he so I started
keeping a girlfriend whom gives me comfort anytime I needed it. I started having
fun that I found peace outside my home but when I get home it become a war zone
One faithful day the nagging was so intense that I couldn’t
take it anymore, I asked her to leave my house; the whole area gathered to
watch me and Oricha that day. I never thought marriage will be this rough, where
did I go any wrong by marrying Oricha? I have tried taking her for marriage counseling
many times but she isn’t interested.
Sometimes it becomes clear to me that she was sent
on a mission to ruin my life. Am so tired of her and I need her out of my life Please
what can I do?
Ayo, Abuja……
Please anyone with a useful advice can
share with Mr. Ayo…
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