Society says that a
real single man tries to "get" with as many women as he possibly
can. If a man practices abstinence, society labels him as gay or something must
be wrong with him. I can personally say that I suffered a lot of ridicule while
growing up due to practicing abstinence.
One might expect
that the mocking came from guys. But I would say that 95% of the
ridiculing came from females. They would make joke after joke and often
said I was not a real man. A poll was recently taken and women were asked if
they wanted to marry a virgin or a man who is sexually experienced. Well over
50% of the women answered that they wanted the experienced man.
Then again it is obnoxious and cruel to expect a man to be financially buoyant simply because he’s a man is just as offensive as expecting a woman to cook and clean simply because she’s a woman. Not every man has deep pockets.
Then again it is obnoxious and cruel to expect a man to be financially buoyant simply because he’s a man is just as offensive as expecting a woman to cook and clean simply because she’s a woman. Not every man has deep pockets.
Feminists can’t yearn for gender
equality and yet expect men to be wealthy because they are men, especially if
you as a woman don’t even have your own money.
If you don’t want the validity of
your womanhood to be evaluated based on your domestic prowess, then stop
devaluing men for being broke. Everyone is on their personal journey, he will
get there when he gets there.
If you don’t want to date a man
without money, it’s your choice, but don’t shame him because of his financial
status, it is cruel. Some women shame men for being in the exact same financial
position as them.
It’s not that men do not see all
these and choose to remain silent, but men have been programmed as robots right
from their tender age not to complain.
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