My father works with police and he has always been transferred
from state to state, so I lived most of my childhood days moving from one state
to another with my parents and siblings. We finally settled in Port-Harcourt,
Rivers state.
I was still in my third year at the University when I
met Kc, then he approached me while I was strolling with a male casual friend
who was at that time chasing me. Kc confidence was so overwhelming, and his
technique was fierce, he seemed to be one of those alpha males that can turn a
strong lady into a melting ice.
Kc does all kinds of entertainment business for a
living, he organizes musical shows, parties beauty pageants and anything of the
sort. At the point when he approached me he talked about me being part of his
upcoming beauty pageant, we exchanged contacts and then he drove off.
From then he started inviting me to so many of his
programs, sometimes he would request for me to invite some of my pretty female friends
to serve as ushers, asoebis, participants etc to his events. I even contested in
one of his pageants.
Later we started dating, story short, I realized
that he was sleeping with all the girls he uses for his events, including the
ones I invited for him. But then I realized I was already pregnant for him. We had
a fight and he asked me to get rid of the pregnancy, I took it as an option
because he was not ready to be a father yet as he was still enjoying his life.
At the pharmacy the nurse advised me to keep the
child despite knowing the kind of man the father seemed to be. I heeded to the
nurse’s advice and it paid off because he later came and paid my bride price on
the 8th month of the pregnancy. I became a proud mother of a
bouncing baby girl who I love more than anything in this world, all thanks to
this nurse whom I heeded her advice.
Now where the
story gets worse is that he seems to be still recruiting young girls for his
beauty pageants and the rest of the things which I am sure that he squashed
them. He said it was in his talent to do entertainment and there’s nothing else
he knows how to do best, so that’s what puts food on the table. Sometimes we
would hang out and he would strategically ask me to help him go and approach a
pretty lady sitting across, to tell her to be his contestant of his upcoming
beauty pageant, sometimes he would say it’s for business and I wouldn’t have
any option.
I love him cos he’s caring and also a good father to
his daughter but he’s a strong womanizer. In some occasions when he will send
me to go and collect a girl’s contact, I will have to beg the girl as
woman-to-woman to try not to sleep with him cos he’s my husband. There was
another time it became an issue between me and him and he stopped asking me to
do the approaching. You see the kind of embarrassments he puts me through?
His closest cousin seemed to be calmer and everything
good that he’s not and am beginning to have feelings for him. Am young and
pretty and I don’t need this kind of life. Please admin I need your advice.
Whatever you seek from his cousin will
never last but spell disaster to your marriage. Try having a dialogue with him
any single time you find the opportunity to but never flood him or nag him with
questions. Just do it with love, be very patient and put the rest in prayers to
God and one day He will answer your prayers. Good luck!
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