Hi HPlus,
Ok before I share my story, I would like to say
this; I have never been a fan of dating my friend’s friend or connecting my
friend to anybody just in the name of
trying to hook somebody up.
My friend has always been so friendly with men
because she finds her way easily around them, she is a jovial type and also the-never-a-dull-moment
type. She has a bunch of friends and friend’s friends, most of them are guys.
I on the other hand am not so much of an outgoing
type, am only friends with her because we live in the same crescent and we
attend the same house cell fellowship, which was where I met her and we became
close, like they say two unlike poles attract each other.
The problem with Kate was that she has a very high
expectation from men, and she has been like that ever since her school days, so
I heard. Dozens of men have come and gone in her life but yet she is not
bothered, of course she has her ways around guys so she cares
more about having a “one” than finding the one, she fantasizes about the idea of having that special
someone. At least I have tried to talk her out of it but she wouldn’t hear me.
About 2 year ago a brother in our home cell fellowship
started developing interest in her and she was at it as usual. You see, this
fellow was no match for Kate as she would always think, because he was way out
of what her ideal dream guy looks or sounds like, he was not tall, he also stammered
and he wasn’t rich. I have seen dudes better than this one trying to date Kate but
never succeeded.
There were times when this guy would ask me to help
him talk to Kate and I will talk to her but she would never yield, until she
started growing angry about hearing me talk about him. At that time she had this guy that always calls her from turkey
which she has never met in person, but yet she claimed she was in love with
him.
One day he called me and I just told him to move on,
that Kate will never yield because she already has someone in her life, and that
was the last time I spoke to or saw him again. Two months later I relocated to
another side of the city. A year later we bumped into each other and we
exchanged contacts, we talked and chatted on phone, and like they say the rest
is history. He proposed……
On our wedding night Kate didn’t show up and I called
her but she wasn’t answering. I woke up the next morning on my wedding day and
saw a text message that Kate sent to me, the text reads;
“Dear B,
Thanks a lot for stabbing me in the back; you could have told me you wanted him and not pretending to be madam mediator. I thought I had a friend but clearly what I see is a saboteur. It’s only a matter of time before karma reaches you and I assure you it will definitely reach you. Go on and enjoy the fruit of your labour, you should be proud of snatching my man.”
I got furious when I received this text on my
wedding day and from my so-called friend. I mean what have I done wrong?
Never mind her, she is only a victim of
her own circumstance. Just be careful of her at this point. It was better that she even made her intentions known even before the wedding.
Just go and enjoy your marriage. Congratulations……
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