Part
2
Lead
Astray;- Creating Pleasure & Confusion.
Most of us understand that certain actions on our
part will have a pleasing and seductive effect on the person we would like to
seduce. The problem is that we are generally too self-absorbed. We think more
about what we want from others than what they could want from us, we may
occasionally do something that is seductive, but often we follow this up with a
selfish and aggressive action, we are in a hurry to get what we want, or
unaware of what we are doing.
Our attempts to seduce usually do not last long
enough to create much of an effect. The Seductive Process Continued;
1.
Keep
Your Subject In Suspense
The moment people feel they know what to expect from
you, your spell on them is broken, you have ceded them power. The only way to
lead the seduced along and keep the upper hand is to create suspense, a
calculated surprise. Doing something they do not expect from you will give them
a delightful sense of spontaneity, they will not be forced to foresee what
comes next. You are always one step ahead and in control. Give the subject a
thrill with a sudden change of direction.
2. Use The Power Of Word To Sow Confusion
It is hard to make people listen; they are consumed
with their own thoughts and desires, and have little time for yours. The trick
to make them listen is to say what they want to hear, to fill their ears with
whatever is pleasant to them. This is the essence of seductive language.
Inflame peoples emotion with loaded phrases, flatter them, comfort their
insecurities, envelop them in sweet words and promises, and not only will they
listen to you, they will lose their will to resist you.
3.
Pay
Attention To Every Detail
Lofty words of love and grand gestures can be
suspicious, why are you trying so hard to please? The details of a seduction;
the subtle gestures, the offhand things you do are often more charming and
revealing, you must learn to distract your victim with a myriad of pleasure and
rituals, thoughtful gifts tailored just for them, clothes and adornments
designed to please them, gestures that show the time and attention you are
paying them, Mesmerized by what they see, they will not notice what you are
really up to.
4.
Alternate
An Exciting Presence
Important things happen when your targets are alone;
the slightest feeling of relief that you are not there, and it is all over.
Familiarity and over exposure will cause this reaction. Remain elusive then. Intrigue
your target by alternating an exciting presence with a cool distance, exuberant
moments followed by calculated absences. Associate yourself with poetic images
and objects, so that when they think of you, they begin to see you through an
idealized halo. The more you figure in their minds, the more they will envelope
you in seductive fantasies.
5.
Disarm
By Deliberate Show Of Weakness And Vulnerability
Too much maneuvering on your part may raise
suspicion. The best way to cover your tracks is to make the other person feel
superior and stronger. If you seem to be week, vulnerable, enthralled by the
other person, and unable to control yourself, you will make your actions look
more natural, less calculated. Physical weakness;- tears, bashfulness, paleness
will help create the effect. Play the victim, then transform your target’s
sympathy into love.
6.
The
Perfect Illusion; Confuse Fantasy And Reality
To compensate for the difficulties in their lives,
people spend a lot of their time daydreaming, imagining a future full of
adventure, success and romance. If you can create the illusion that through you
they can live out their dreams, you will have them at your mercy. Aim at secret
wishes that have been thwarted or repressed, stirring up uncontrollable
emotions, clouding their powers of reason. Lead the seduced to a point of
confusion in which they can no longer tell the difference between illusion and
reality.
7.
Isolate
The Subject
An isolated person is weak. By slowly isolating your
victims, you make them more vulnerable to your influence. Take them away from
their normal friends, family, home. Give them the sense of being marginalized,
in other words, they are leaving one world behind and entering another. Once
isolated like this, they have no outside support, and in their confusion they
are easily led astray. Lure the seduced into your lair, where nothing is
familiar.
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